Ladies! Oral orgasms are some of the best!… But, sometimes men don’t really know how to stimulate the clitoris properly for us to have an orgasm
If that’s your case, the best thing you could do is get to know your body, so you can better guide your man down on you. 🙂
The clitoris is your most sensitive spot. It is the “Holy Grail” of orgasms. With about 8,000 nerve endings, the clit’s only function is to give you sexual pleasure.
Now, it is definitely your orgasm spot and your man could do more than just licking it.
So, is he stimulating your clitoris the right way to give you oral orgasms?
Well, if you’re not reaching oral orgasms with his tongue, it’s time for you to introduce him to new techniques to lick your clit!
Read below, and share these suggestions with your honey for you to start experiencing delicious wet oral orgasms! 😉
Most women respond well to clitoral stimulation outside the clitoral hood; but, the clitoris itself is very sensitive to handle direct stimulation, and the most common mistake than men do is to reach directly for it which can be really uncomfortable for the woman.
Therefore, your man must always warm up your vulva and your clit before applying direct stimulation.
Instead of him to stimulate the clitoral head directly, an outside approach works best. After all, the clitoral hood is designed to protect the clitoral head. There’s no need to dig with his tongue underneath the hood to look for the head, that will only cause discomfort.
Therefore, due to the clitoris sensitivity, it is very important for him to learn how to stimulate it properly to give you lots of pleasure and never pain.
Any of the following clitoral stimulation techniques can be performed with the tongue focused on the outside of the clitoral hood, with the exception of the upwards stroke which he will use once your clit is ready for that kind of stimulation.
Clitoral Stimulation Techniques For Oral Orgasms
This move is very easy and feels great to you. He must position his tongue on either the right or left side of the clitoris and move from side to side as though he were sweeping a floor. He can start with slow strokes and gradually increase speed.
This one is one of the best! He simply needs to position his tongue either to the left or right of your clitoris, and move it in circles around the clitoris only, either in a clockwise or counter-clockwise motion.
This movement feels great because it stimulates the clitoral hood, as well as, some of the cilt head when his tongue is passing by the 6:00 position on the “clock” of the clitoris.
A soft tongue works best at the beginning when you’re getting warmed up, then faster strokes with more pressure are great when you’re close to orgasm.
This move is to be performed when you’re already aroused because suction can put too much pressure in your sensitive clit on an early stage. He will take your clitoris gently into his mouth and lightly suck on it – much as though he were drinking from a straw.
Remember; he shouldn’t get too rough with this move!
This movement in particular is best done with extreme care – meaning soft and slow!
Let him know if you like this move or not. If you’re shrinking away before you orgasm, he must lighten up on the suction or discontinue sucking your clitoris at all. Most women enjoy this move, but some others don’t. Find out if you like it.
Does he know the ABC’S? This may sound funny to you, but this one is one of the best moves!
Do you remember how I said that having him drawing circles with his tongue will feel amazing? Well, just imagine how would you feel if he draws a variety of different shapes other that just a circle! Basically, it feels amazing
What he needs to do is simply position his tongue (a pointed one works best here) either to the side or at the top of your clitoris, and begin using his tongue to draw the ABC’s. He can vary this technique using numbers or even writing sexy or romantic stuff that you can maybe guess.
Encourage him to get creative on this one!
The ABC stroke is a powerful move because it gives just the right amount of contact to both the clitoral hood and the clitoral head while mixing things up. He will provide perfect contact, an excellent rhythm and variety because no two strokes are exactly the same.
Here, he places his mouth over your clitoris, and gently suck it in and out of his mouth. He must be careful to not suck too hard. This move is best used when you’re already warmed up and fairly close to orgasm. Using it too early may cause your rejection and also it may be too strong of a sensation to use during an orgasm.
As a variation, he can use the tip of his tongue to gently flick your clitoris while it is in his mouth – release your clitoris and repeat. He can vary this move with just the suction move, and he’ll soon have you in orgasm heaven!
6. The messy eater
Basically, this move encompasses all the other techniques (such as tongue circles or gentle vacuum suction), but in somewhat of a “smorgasbord” fashion.
He’ll want to cradle both of your legs in his arms (your thighs will be in the crease of his elbow, and his hands should come up around and rest on your hip bones) and… basically, dig in!
He must be gentle with the clitoris though, and make sure you really like this one because some women can get turned off by this kind of “hungry attack” ;)… So, let him know if you enjoy this or not.
There you go, 6 techniques for him to really stimulate your clitoris properly, and give you all the mind blowing oral orgasms you want! Share them with him, and add variety to your oral sex life!